Timing the move to assisted living is one of the hardest calls families make. Here's how to know.
When is the right time to move a parent?
The right time is usually before a crisis, not after. Watch for a pattern of warning signs: repeated falls, medication mistakes, weight loss, poor hygiene, an unsafe or unkempt home, social isolation, confusion, or unsafe driving. When these add up and in-home help isn't enough to keep your parent safe and well, it's time. Waiting for a hospitalization or serious injury forces rushed decisions and limits your options. Moving proactively means you can tour, compare, and choose carefully. A 1-800-MEDIGAP advisor can help you assess the timing and find the right community for free at 1-800-633-4427.
How do I talk to my parent about moving?
Start the conversation early and gently, ideally before it's urgent. Lead with love and their well-being rather than logistics, and listen to their fears about losing independence or leaving home. Involve them in touring and choosing so they keep a sense of control. Acknowledge that it's an emotional change for everyone. Focus on the upsides: safety, companionship, freedom from chores, and renewed peace of mind for the whole family. If resistance is strong, a doctor or trusted friend can help. Call 1-800-MEDIGAP for free tips and support navigating this conversation and the move.